Becoming a surrogate is one of the most selfless and empowering decisions a woman can make. At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we know that while the idea is exciting, it’s also natural to have questions, especially if you’re exploring surrogacy for the first time.
Below, we’ve rounded up the most frequently asked questions from potential surrogates and provided honest, reassuring answers to help guide your decision.
1. Why do I need to have had a child before becoming a surrogate?
We require that all surrogates have had at least one full-term, uncomplicated pregnancy and are actively raising that child. This ensures you understand the physical and emotional aspects of pregnancy and parenthood and that your body has already safely carried a child.
2. Will I have a genetic connection to the baby?
No. In gestational surrogacy, which is the type Pinnacle Surrogacy facilitates, the surrogate has no genetic link to the child. The embryo is created using the egg of the intended mother or a donor and the sperm of the intended father or a donor.
3. Do I get to choose the intended parents I work with?
Yes! At Pinnacle Surrogacy, we believe in a mutual match process. You’ll have the opportunity to meet and get to know the intended parents before moving forward. Your comfort and connection with them are important.
4. Is surrogacy safe?
While all pregnancies carry some risk, surrogacy is generally very safe for healthy women. You’ll undergo thorough medical and psychological screening before being approved, and you’ll receive excellent prenatal care throughout the process.
5. What kind of support will I receive during the journey?
You won’t go through this alone. Our team offers:
- Ongoing emotional and psychological support
- Legal guidance to protect your rights
- A dedicated case manager to walk you through every step
- Access to experienced professionals and a supportive community of fellow surrogates
6. Can I be a surrogate if I’ve had a C-section?
Yes, you can! As long as you’ve had no more than three C-section deliveries and have recovered well, you’re likely eligible. A history of healthy, full-term deliveries is key.
7. How much does it cost to become a surrogate?
Nothing. All medical and legal expenses are covered by the intended parents. In addition, you will receive generous compensation, along with reimbursement for things like travel, maternity clothing, and lost wages (if applicable).
8. Can I still work or care for my children while being a surrogate?
Absolutely. Many surrogates continue working and caring for their families during the pregnancy. We work with you to create a balanced, manageable plan, and compensation helps support any needed adjustments in your routine.
9. What if I change my mind?
Surrogacy agreements are thorough and legally binding to protect both parties. However, we understand emotions can be complex. We ensure you’re fully educated and supported before you sign anything, so you’re confident in your decision from the very beginning.
10. Will I feel attached to the baby?
It’s a common concern, but most surrogates describe the experience differently from their pregnancies. You know from the start that you are carrying the baby for someone else. With the right emotional support, many surrogates say the most powerful emotion they feel is joy, watching the intended parents meet their baby for the first time.
Still Have Questions? We’re Here to Help.
Every surrogate’s journey is unique, and it’s completely normal to want answers before taking the first step. If you’re curious about surrogacy and want to learn more, reach out to the Pinnacle Surrogacy team today at 877-261-0392 or fill out our quick interest form to see if you qualify.
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